I started this blog in late 2013 as a more public way to express the absolute stark realities of being newly single, in a time that I never expected it.
I am implicitly, and completely in love WITH Love, but I am also a blinded fool to it. I am monogamous by nature, and as the title suggests, a serial dater.
Here’s the deal: I make wonderful and horrible decisions in my love life, in an almost rampant lather, rinse, repeat system and have for most of my life. Marriage frightens and feels foreign to me. I am hugely independent, almost to a detriment. I am introverted extrovert, who battles the need for attention, while yelling “Quit looking at me!” at the same time. But you know, once in a while a good guy slips thru, and absolutely confirms everything I know to be good about love.
And that’s what I am writing about, all tongue in cheek. Mostly. In late 2013 I ended a 7 year relationship with The One I thought was The One, who really ended up being more like, One of The Ones. Since then, I have moved back surreptitiously into the role of Single White Female.
Follow me on my journey of discovering what being thrown back into the dating pool, when the tools of yesterday are fading. I am navigating my way thru life’s changes, in a world very different than it was the last time I was single.
Buckle up kids, it’s going to be a bumpy ride.